A common mistake in English is to say ‘between you and I’, as in this sentence: ‘It’s a bit silly, between you and I.’
- It is always correct to say ‘between you and me’.
- It is always incorrect to say ‘between you and I’.
A preposition such as between must be followed by an objective pronoun (such as me, him, her, and us) rather than a subjective pronoun (such as I, he, she, and we). If you say ‘between you and I’ you are saying ‘between him and she’, or ‘between we’. This is clearly incorrect.
Why do people make this mistake?
They know it is wrong to say ‘Sarah and me love going out’. They know it is correct to say ‘Sarah and I love going out’. Most people think the words ‘and me’ should be replaced by ‘and I’ in all cases.
The correct expression is always ‘between you and me’, as in this sentence: ‘It’s a bit silly, between you and me.’
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